Monday, September 15, 2014

The Detour



 
Detours are frustrating... well at least for me they are! I can get really annoyed when it’s an inconvenience, especially when it’s in the middle of the night and the construction men are working and slowing traffic down and sending them a different direction. I remember one late evening I left work really late and I couldn't wait to get home to eat, shower, and relax. Well that night that's what I had planned, never the less my plan didn't go as I vision it. I ended up on a backed up two way street, bumper to bumper heading the opposite direction from my home..... Grrrr I was so annoyed, I was annoyed with the people in the cars in front of me, in back of me, I was annoyed with the construction men directed the traffic and I was annoyed with whatever work they were doing! Yea.... Ok... Not a big deal right?! But the issue was that I had recently moved into my place and just as I was getting used to it, the road I normally drove on to get to and from was now being torn apart.  I had to drive an additional X miles to get to work and home. This wasn't just a onetime event, the construction and detour of it was going to last more than 6 months.

You see my everyday norm wasn't going to be a norm for me anymore. I was going to have to wake up earlier to get to work, arrive home later than usual, and use more miles/gas money and it was all out of my control. I had to make some adjustments of my own and deal with it! As the months passed, I started to see a smooth concrete road being laid out, more and more I could see the finishing of it. So finally some time later the construction was all done. Not only was it done, but my commute was so much nicer because it wasn't a two way road anymore, it was double lane and there were more options to get onto highways much easier and faster. Now that was pleasant, not only for me, but I'm sure for all the other people that lived in my neighborhood.

Many times we get forced to take life detours that are unexpected. Just when it seems like life is good or we are at a comfort state it suddenly gets interrupted. I personally know what it feels like to face a "life interruption” and it really suuuuccckkkkssss! I got so annoyed... I kicked, I screamed, I cried, I begged, and the list goes on. I could only a see the mess at the moment of my detour that I didn't even create in first place. What I thought was good was actually being destroyed.... I just didn't get it, it didn't make sense. I blamed others, I was mad at the people causing the mess, and was just simply frustrated! I wanted to change something that was out of my control... I'm sure you're getting my drift. You know when something is going the opposite direction from what you know is right and true. Or when you did all you could do to avoid any mishaps, but the smash up kept coming. Just like when the road is being redone, the drills are going straight through and the concrete to tear apart and break it into pieces..... Yes, that's how I pretty much felt when my detour started, my internal world was being torn apart, I didn't know why, and all I knew was agony. After a long journey of heartache, confusion, endurance, and sacrifice I realized that although there are situations we call "interruptions" we can still enjoy what lies ahead.

 
To simplify my point, although we face some difficult challenges in life, it is actually for our benefit if we just allow it. We have the decision to get stuck in a pity state being lost and confuse. We have the choice to complain on how life was so much better “back then”, and miss out on the better life that is being orchestrated before us.  We have the choice, to seek the better things and do all the good that we know. Many times when detours rise up will be because there is something that needs to be destroyed within our internal world, but only to make us better and more beautiful…. Again, that’s only if you allow it. You don’t have to hate or blame others for the destruction in your situation, but be patient, stay focus, and keep taking steps forward.

There is a more pleasant life road being expanded just for you, don’t act too quickly on the destruction you see in front of you, but wait and let run its course. There is a great reward, and great benefit for your behalf waiting for you and those around you! Fight for what you know is right, seek up, and just wait on The One that allowed the detour in first place :-)

 

Jeremiah 29:10-11

10-11 This is God’s Word on the subject: “As soon as Babylon’s seventy years are up and not a day before, I’ll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.

 

 
 

 

·        Freedom: the power of right to act, speak, think as one wants without hindrance or restraint. The state of not being imprisoned or enslaved. Liberation, release, deliverance, discharge.

·        Sparrow: The sparrow is vigilant in her goals. She can be quite intimidating to some. She is a master of flight, and camouflage, and as such the sparrow teaches us to use our creativity to get around in life – think outside the box, and be creative in solving our problems. She represents Joy, Protection, Simplicity, Creativity, Friendliness, Community, and Productivity. All too often we take the sparrow for granted – small though she may be, she is certainly powerful.  It is her slightness in size that gives her advantages.  She reminds us we do not have to have the big stuff (cars, house, etc.) to be important, and we do not have to have the loudest voice in order be heard. Gospel hymns, such as “His Eye Is on the Sparrow,” also use the image of the sparrow to denote the importance of all things in the eyes of God.
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Friday, July 18, 2014

My "Pilgrim" Days: Talk about nothing....

My "Pilgrim" Days: Talk about nothing....: Talk about nothing....     I wanted to share a small revelation I received from the Father recently. How HE perceives talk...

Talk about nothing....




Talk about nothing....

 


 
I wanted to share a small revelation I received from the Father recently. How HE perceives talking to him about anything and everything.

 
For those who have children you will know exactly what I'll be talking about,  for those who have particular friends and family that LOVE to talk, and for those who have a that wonderful spouse that never "shuts up!".... Relax, I'm saying all in love! Sometimes we just go with along with all what they're saying and just agree. Right?!

 
One afternoon I was in my kitchen cleaning and preparing dinner. All while I was doing this, my eight year son was just talking away and he was talking about anything and everything. He does this often, and I always respond with, "Really, wow, ooohhh, ugh huh" just going along with it right. But this day was different, I was intrigued with all little nothing’s he was saying. I suddenly caught myself sitting next to him in my kitchen table just listening and admiring his, questions, his opinions, and his interest. At the very moment God wrecked my heart and showed me that's how he is with us. He is excited and always interested in what we have to say to him, He is there always ready to listen even when we don't have a whole lot of nothing to say. It's amazing how He longs to be in constant fellowship with us. Many times we think we only should go to the Father when there are trials, or when we face something too big and after we have realized we can't do it on our own, then that's when we go to the Father and ask him to take over our problem. That’s not at all the case on how age sees things. He wants us to go to him with all things. Even if it's a small silly thing, He wants us to take to him, talk to Him about it. He really enjoys all the little nothings we have to talk about and He is always ready to give you His undivided attention, His love is so great, that we can talk our lives away and to him it's so minor.

 
So in sharing this I just wanted to give you a little reminder or encouragement that our God is full of love and desires for all to come to him with anything and everything. He is waiting and ready to respond. Don’t ever think your problem or concern is too silly to take to God, because He is ready to provide everything you need for the little nothing’s in your life.